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Tuesday, March 19, 2013

A friend who's a Friend


Some years ago I was working at a job that paid the bills and added nicely to my resume but didn’t really fit in very well with my view of who I am. So, when the company was faced with laying some people off, I volunteered to be one of those who would take the hit. It was viewed by several of my co-workers as a selfless gesture but in reality, it was totally selfish.
I had been working on a degree centered on ethics at the time and it had come to my attention through a the grapevine that a prof named Bob Schultz was soon to retire. Now, I knew Dr. Schultz was a member of the Friends Committee on National Legislation and had been told by another prof I’d met and liked – Dr. Diane Gillespie – that I would probably be interested in Bob’s take on the world.  I checked the course catalog and sure enough, the good Dr. Schultz was about to teach his last course before retiring but it was a daytime course and I had a day job.

So, I took the hit at work, accepted my unemployment insurance and registered for the course. It turned out to be one of the best decisions of my intellectual life.
Bob’s course was centered on ‘professionalism’ from a conceptual angle. What qualifies as a profession, as opposed to just an occupation or trade? Why must certain occupations require specific education and profession to standards of practice and a canon of ethics? Through discussion and a bit of lecture here and there and significant reading and then more discussion, we explored what it meant to profess. What separates MDs and lawyers and other professionals from the rest of us working schlubs? But frankly, although I enjoyed the subject matter, that wasn’t what grabbed me. What floated my boat was the discussion led by a guy who understood that you can’t find good answers if you don’t first think seriously about framing good questions.

Fast forward.
Today while sidelined by a bug I got to thinking about a recent comment by another friend to the effect that she was sick and tired of all the truly awful stuff out there on the Web. I have to agree with her – I find it difficult to wrap my mind around the apparent fact that numerous people recently used the Internet to share snarky comments about a brutal rape, even celebrating the hideous crime itself. I find this disappointing but not surprising - the web is replete with hate and porn and racism and misogyny and blatant disrespect.

It doesn’t have to be that way and it shouldn’t be. The Internet can and should become a tool of thinking people and an engine of positive social change. But the algorithms that bring us stories to read and sites to visit do so in large part by tracking the sites we visit and inferring an interest profile.
After reading Sherree’s concerns (oops, I told) I got to thinking about intentionally altering how the algorithms view me. So instead of going to cnn.com or You Tube, I went into my favorite search engine and started looking up more pleasant things. And as I jumped from site to site, I came across mention of Bob’s name and looked up a couple of sites (links below) that interested me.

Professor Bob and I were never big buddies. I enjoyed his class and was thrilled to run into him accidentally in a Washington D.C. hotel lobby later that year. He was there for meetings relating to his involvement with FCNL and I was there for my work as an advocate for persons living with disabilities. I didn’t recognize him at first and mistook him for our bus driver. He laughed, I laughed and when he’d walked away, I found myself wishing I could have just one more class with him.
Bob is a retired prof and a respected speaker and thinker. But mostly, he’s just a nice guy. And I’m glad to see he’s still around being a nice guy.  There are lots of Bobs to be found on the Net if we just refuse to let ourselves be led to filth. I intend to search them out. Care to join me?

 
(NOTE: Dr. Bob wrote a “last lecture” that remains one of my favorite examples of the written word. I truly wish I had his permission to share it here. To learn a little about what Bob’s about, follow the links below. Turns out it’s easy to find posts about interesting and decent people trying to do right. You just have to know where to look.


Oh, and find some good links to send back to me, please.)

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